Attention is the new currency of our current time.
Whoever gathers the most attention, wins.
And so everyone is fighting to get a piece of it—as am I right now with this email you’re reading.
There’s no way around it.
You could say it’s wrong, there’s definitely an argument to be made for it. But how are you going to spread your message without gathering attention? How are you going to make an impact and make positive changes in the world?
Bottom line: getting attention isn’t evil.
But let me warn you about this: everyone on social media is playing the same game.
As with everything, there are evergreen strategies to get engagement and capture attention. One of those is to pick a fight. To choose an enemy and attack them. It can be anything: people, concepts, trends, ideas, beliefs, whatever you want. The more popular, the better.
Controversy gets attention. Controversy sells.
Which means people are fighting all the time. Coffee, morning routines, cold outreach, 4am club, cold showers, cohorts, daily emails, meditation, tweet templates, platitudes, ‘authenticity’, storytelling, copywriting, 18-year-old life coaches, best and worst markets to be in, unhealthy mindsets,…
The list goes on.
This is the sad cycle of social media:
Something rises in popularity → A lot of people talk highly about it → It becomes hugely popular → people start attacking it for attention → attacking it becomes popular → the thing itself is unpopular again → people start defending it again because now that’s the ‘unpopular’ thing to do (which gets attention) → it becomes popular again.
And the cycle repeats.
What I’m trying to say is that you’ll always have people hating everything on social media—it quite literally pays to start new fights and pick new enemies.
The only way to get out of this mess?
Building your own world. Doing your own thing.
The #1 worst mistake you can make is to listen to other people’s advice. Seriously.
Experiment with stuff you come across, get inspired by others, try stuff you think is cool, and stick with it.
Don’t let other people tell you what you can post and what you can’t. Don’t let other people tell you what’s going to make you successful and what won’t. And don’t let other people tell you how many emails you can send before people ‘get annoyed’ at you. Test it out and go see it for yourself.
If you think sending daily emails sounds stupid, boring, a waste of time, then don’t listen to me and do your own thing.
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